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How To Handle Baby Shower & Kid Party Invites


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SORRY WE'RE LATE! Life for Katie & Abby is getting a little hectic. Also, we apologize for the faint baby cries in the background...


In episode 17, Katie & Abby discuss different strategies for how to handle invitations to baby showers, kid parties and overall social gatherings. Being in a social setting can be difficult when struggling with infertility for many reasons. We have made a list of ways you can avoid the invite all together and/or how you can survive the gathering and still be present.


Short Term ideas:

  1. Politely Decline
  2. Set Time Limit For Attendance 
  3. Call a friend the day of or on the way to talk it out/cry it out
  4. Exercise Day Of
  5. Pep Talk to Yourself/ Think Positively
  6. Have response ready
  7. Good Cry
  8. Baby Shower Specific: get Mom-To-Be gifts
  9. Long Term ideas:

    1. Therapy/ Self Care
    2. Journal
    3. Stay Active/ Find a Hobby
    4. Identifying your triggers
    5. Medication
    6. Be honest, tell [insert name here] why you haven’t been around
    7. Share this Podcast! Specifically “What NOT to say to someone TTC”
    8. What You Probably Shouldn’t Do:

      1. Numb the Pain
      2. Lash Out Unnecessarily/ Keep Feelings Bottled Up
      3. Become a Recluse 
      4. Harm Yourself

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