Marriage difficulties are common inside and outside the church. How do we heal a hurting message?

In this two-part discussion, Pastors Philip and Eric address your questions on marriage and then lay out the steps you can take to heal a broken marriage.

Section 1--Questions from listeners

1. Can you leave an abusive marriage? (5:40)
2. Under what circumstances can a marriage be annulled? (13:40)
3. Is it permissible to divorce your spouse if they have a disease like Alzheimer’s? (15:45)
4. When could you remarry if you are previously divorced? (17:55)

Section 2--Steps to healing a hurting marriage (20:48)

1. What if you come from a family where divorce is common? How do you break the cycle? Get a new marriage template.
2. If you and your spouse are constantly fighting, what should you do? Seek to understand your partner’s needs and develop a curiosity for your spouse.
3. Is there any coming back from infidelity? How can a person learn to trust their spouse again? Work to rebuild trust.
4. What is some advice you might give for those who want a healthier marriage?
   • Put Christ at the center of your marriage.
   • Tend your heart before the Lord
   • Prioritize communication skills and listen well to one another
   • Serve one another in love

Additional recommended resources:

• "The Meaning of Marriage" by Tim Keller: https://www.amazon.com/Meaning-Marriage-Facing-Complexities-Commitment/dp/1594631875/
• "Sacred Marriage" by Gary Thomas: https://www.amazon.com/Sacred-Marriage-What-Designed-Happy/dp/0310337372/
• "The Mingling of Souls" by Matt Chandler: https://www.amazon.com/Mingling-Souls-Design-Marriage-Redemption/dp/1434706869/
• "You and Me Forever" by Francis Chan: https://www.amazon.com/You-Me-Forever-Marriage-Eternity/dp/0990351408/

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