How to hear your children's cries for connection.

In this powerful episode of "Hi Struggling, I'm Dad!", we unpack the subtle — and sometimes not-so-subtle — ways your kids cry out for connection.

👨‍👧‍👦💬 It’s not always tantrums or tears. Sometimes it's a random phone call, asking for help to build a sand castle, or suddenly being “difficult” — but underneath it all is a need:

“Do you see me?” “Do I matter to you?”

As a Christian dad and coach, I’ve had to learn how to tune in to what my kids are really asking for, even when they don’t have the words to say it. This episode dives into:

✅ How to interpret your child’s behavior as a cry for closeness

✅ The power of consistency: keeping promises and following through

✅ Ways to carve out meaningful time (even in a busy season)

✅ Creative ways to build connection when you're exhausted

✅ Why our kids need *presence* more than *perfection*

📍 Whether you're parenting toddlers, teens, or adult kids, this conversation will help you lead with intention, empathy, and spiritual wisdom.

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00:00 Introduction: Understanding Children's Cries for Connection

00:37 Recognizing Subtle Signs of Connection

01:06 Connection Across Different Ages

01:54 Activities as a Form of Connection

02:50 The Importance of Being Present

09:08 Addressing Inconveniences and Overlaps

12:29 Effective Communication and Setting Expectations

14:39 Incorporating Children into Your Activities

15:59 Conclusion: Prioritizing Connection

18:02 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

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"Hi Struggling, I'm Dad!" is a podcast dedicated to helping people be the best parents, partners and people they can possibly be.

I'm Grant Berardi, a father of 5 kids, a husband of 15 years, a qualified counsellor and coach with over a decade of experience.

This podcast was made due to my passion for helping others reach their fullest potential in as many aspects of their life as possible.

This podcast embodies this passion but also sees the funny side even in the difficult moments.

Integrity, character, ownership, leadership and relationship are key themes throughout.

I've made these outlets because I've struggled with fear of failure, anxiety and self-doubt, and would have loved to have had help from someone along the way.

I want to be that help for others.

All the best,

-Grant Berardi

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