Welcome to  Soft Landing Podcast where we dive deep into the realities of divorce and separation—offering insights, strategies, and stories to help you navigate this challenging journey with clarity and confidence.

Today’s episode draws from "Divorce: How to Hire a Lawyer" by Sam Margulies, a thought-provoking exploration of how the adversarial legal system often falls short in divorce proceedings. Margulies argues that aggressive legal tactics, designed to maximize fees, can fuel conflict and harm families in the long run.

We’ll unpack a compelling case study that highlights these pitfalls and explore Margulies’ advice for choosing a lawyer who champions cooperation and practical solutions. You’ll also hear how to manage your lawyer effectively, debunk myths about aggressive representation, and discover how limiting lawyer involvement can empower better negotiation and communication.

This episode is all about shifting the paradigm—embracing a more collaborative approach to divorce that prioritizes resolution over rivalry.

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