Loving what God loves and hating what He hates never comes easy.  Do you know why?  Most of the time, our agenda and His are not moving the same way.  It's the age-old conflict of a child's will versus the will of his father.  When our first grandson began to talk, one of the first phrases that he mastered clearly was, "I want...."  But the way the youngster voiced it made it clear that he didn't need any encouragement to be assertive.  He had his own agenda, and he was intent on getting his way.