HOW TO MAKE FAMILY LOVE LAST
If we only love each other, that love will never last. We must open our hearts to many people, only then will the love between us become truly sustainable. It's just like a husband and wife. The other day, I saw something on TikTok. A couple was walking together. The husband was holding his partner's hand, but then he let go to take his phone out and make a call.
He kept talking while walking, and when he finished, he just held the phone instead of putting it back. The woman then asked: "Why are you holding the phone and not holding my hand?" She was demanding love in every little detail. Watching that, I realized: When people promise to love each other, they start watching each other. They look for signs of "not loving" just to criticize, to be jealous, and to blame one another. Isn't that right, Đạt Tiến Ngộ?
"That's right." Is that true for everyone? Từ Ân? "It is very true." So that's how it is. At first, when they promise to love, or when they get married, they swear: "In this life, I only love you." And then, they start policing each other. "Did you promise?" "Is that true?" They watch, they stalk, and pick on every little thing until they can't stand it anymore. That is how love turns into resentment because they are too busy watching each other.
But here, if two people truly love each other, and they also love the whole village, and care for all their relatives, surprisingly, that shared love for everyone will strengthen the bond between them. It makes their love much deeper. This is a secret that very few people know.
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