God loves sex and wants you to enjoy sexual intimacy. Sex is something many Christians do not talk about in their churches. But it is a revelatory gift that God wants us to talk about. It is not something to be hidden away. Sex is either ruling us, repulsing us or reminding us of the greatness of a loving and gracious God who wants us to know and be known. When sex is ruling us or we are repulsed by the thought of it, it will become a war in our love life. But when we understand that God loves sex and wants us to enjoy sexual intimacy in the context of marriage we learn how to make love not a war.