This is how Jin and I approach making the first move and escalating on our first dates or even further in to the "courtship". We know how it is, you're there on your first date and you're kind of trying to feel out the situation and see if shes ready to be kissed. Or you're back at your house, things are getting steamier but you're hesitating about putting your hand up her shirt or making a move.
We get it bro, nobody wants to get hit with a #metoo or be rejected and have her feel uncomfortable ruining the whole date because you didn't even bother to read proper signals or make her feel at ease and ready. It's all about learning how to read situations, body language and how to approach making that move in a way where her attraction, arousal and comfort level are in sync ready for you to uh...y'know take it there. I highly recommend this for any of you guys who have great dates or get the girl back to your house but can't close the deal. Hope this helps bros!