You Are Designed For Connection.  Eyes require a view. Ears require sound. The mind requires thoughts.   Aloneness creates vulnerability. God knew it. “And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone,” (Genesis 2:18).

 God loves marriage. But, marriage is not a mere reproduction center for human babies.

Marriage is sowing ground where you sow your patience, love, and enthusiasm, and watch it multiply in those around you who celebrate your presence.

Your mate is a gift from God to you. That gift is intended to: 

1) protect your focus, 

2) reduce distractions, and 

3) create a climate of protection.

 Focus often creates blindness. When you are looking north, you cannot see south. Someone else is needed for your protection. So, God provides the gift of a Mate.  Unfortunately, some who qualify for our attention are often unqualified to receive our hearts.