Reconciliation is probably one of the most important ingredients of peace and fulfillment in any relationship. To reconcile, one needs to first have the conciousness of a reconciliation between them and God. If you ever felt that God was angry with you and was punishing you for your past faults and sins, you will find it difficult reconciling with others, especially your family members. If you settle the matter with God by accepting his salvation and forgiveness, you'll no longer feel inadequate before God and that will make it easy for you to believe that God has no records of wrong against you. Armed with that assurance, you can easily reconcile with your family and friends.