There is a guy in your group who has come to your meeting this week deciding that this is the moment. This is the time he is going to share the secret that he has been keeping, the sin that has been festering. He has decided to take the risk. To trust this group of friends sitting around the table from him. So he shares. Maybe he cries. Maybe he looks ashamed. And then he finishes sharing and there is silence. Somebody has to say something. But what do you say?