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How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Selfish (Even If You're a People-Pleaser)


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In this episode, Drew Chaz shares how introverts can set boundaries without guilt and finally break free from people-pleasing habits. You’ll learn why quiet professionals often struggle with saying no, how it drains your energy, and what to do instead.Drew walks you through real-world examples, simple scripts, and practical mindset shifts that help you communicate clearly, protect your energy, and build quiet confidence—without becoming someone you’re not.If you’re tired of overcommitting and ready to prioritize your peace, this episode gives you the tools to set firm boundaries and still be kind. Saying no isn’t rude — it’s necessary. This episode walks introverts through the emotional blocks that keep them stuck in yes-mode and reveals how to set clear, kind boundaries without guilt.



Takeaways

  • If you're an introvert who loves thinking deeply, you're in the right place.
  • Boundaries are about protecting your energy and sense of self.
  • Saying no is a full sentence; you don't need to over-explain.
  • You can be kind and firm at the same time when setting boundaries.
  • Boundaries are not rigid; they're intentional filters for your peace.
  • Identify areas where you're overextending yourself.
  • Script your boundaries in advance to communicate them clearly.
  • Practice setting boundaries in small ways to build confidence.
  • Disappointing others is sometimes necessary to avoid disappointing yourself.
  • Your analytical mind is your greatest strength when used correctly.


Chapters

00:00 Understanding Boundaries for Introverts

03:04 The Importance of Protecting Your Energy

05:23 Reframing Your Perspective on Boundaries

08:02 Practical Steps to Set Boundaries

10:21 Celebrating Your Wins and Moving Forward

13:31 New Chapter


Keywords

  • How to set boundaries as an introvert

  • Stop people pleasing without feeling guilty

  • Quiet assertiveness strategies for introverts

  • Protect your energy and say no with confidence

  • Self-care routines for highly sensitive introverts

  • Speak up without being loud

  • Emotional strength for introverts

    Communication tips for soft-spoken professionals

introvert boundaries, setting limits, people-pleasing recovery, self-care for introverts, emotional burnout





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