Settings goals as a couple can bring  up all the things in your relationship…the competition, the differences  of opinions, and the “do it my way” attitudes. There’s a better way to  approach setting and getting goals as a couple that can actually bring  you together with common purposes. Here are the 6 Steps that have made  all the difference for my wife Kim and me, as we have navigated our  differences. Setting goals is an important part of maintaining a healthy  relationship.