If you are thinking about them, wondering who they're with, what they're doing you might be trying to leave two lives. How can you live two lives and enjoy your one life? You can't so release attachment to an outcome or control over another person when you're not around them and only live your own life. Live in your own present moment, your experiences your thoughts. Attachments are a desire or a wish of a particular outcome or capturing something in a person or a thing. So I get into it, elaborating on my own struggle with sweetie, and the story it means when I feel you might be with someone else, pleasuring her, allowing himself to be pleasured by her. I say, I'm less Worthy I'm not valuable, if those things occur, and he walks away. If he walks away, rejects me drops out of my life, I still have the same value I did before I ever met him. You have the same value before you ever met this person, and you'll have the same value if and when they ever leave you. Your value is still infinite, still priceless still rare, still Worthy. It's tough I know because I'm living it, I understand. But we can get through together. We have each other have a beautiful night.