Guys need to understand that in order to have a great sex life with your wife figure out what she likes, and SLOW IT DOWN.  Find ways throughout the day to kick start her mood and her desire for you, so that by the time you get home from work, she's already emotionally connected with you and the level of intimacy has already started!

Here's a few things for you think about:

• Kissing her in the morning
• Giving her a hug, and then walking away
• Send flirtatious text messages and Emojis
• Help out with the kids when you get home
• Taking care of hygiene before bed
• Freshen up before bed
• Create an atmosphere