The most disrespectful and cruel thing I could do to Craig would be to stay in our relationship for his potential. I'll fully love you "when". This is what I did in my marriage and it broke me when I realized how painful that is to do to someone.

My heart changed that day but it's not like my habit to "fix" went away, I just knew I never wanted to be like that again. 

When Craig and I got together it was a whole new world and I had to (and still have to) check myself when I feel like I'm crossing that line. 

I have to come back to the truth that no matter what Craig does or how he acts, I'm responsible for how I feel. 

If I don't feel loved, safe and supported, there is nothing he can do to change that. 

We project our pain on the people we love the most when it's ours to heal.

In this episode, I dive into how I stopped being a fixer and started to take responsibility for me! And how I learned to set high standards for ME!

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