How do you actually stop centering men?

In Part 2 of my De-Centering Men mini series, we're moving beyond why we do it and talking about practical ways to start choosing yourself instead.

If you've ever felt like your happiness depends on being in a relationship or found yourself putting your life on hold while waiting for the right person, this episode is for you.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Building a relationship with yourself

• Loving yourself the way you'd love a partner

• Investing in friendships

• Creating a life that doesn't go on pause when you're single

• Finding hobbies and passions that belong to you

• Making plans that don't require a partner

• Taking a break from dating for six months to a year

• Journaling to challenge your beliefs about relationships

• Creating goals that don't revolve around finding someone

• Building your own happy ending

• Learning to validate yourself instead of relying on someone else

• Uninstalling dating apps if they're keeping you stuck

• Centering your life around you

At the end of the episode, I also give you a challenge:

For one week, don't make a single decision based on whether a man might approve of it.

Sometimes the smallest decisions reveal the biggest patterns.

If you're ready to stop abandoning yourself in relationships and start building a life you genuinely love, you're in the right place.

Subscribe for Part 3 of the De-Centering Men mini series.

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