Supporting a friend with cancer is hard. In this episode of Lady Party, we’re getting real about the emotional ups and downs of being there for someone fighting cancer. Spoiler alert: there’s no perfect way to do it, but that doesn’t mean your efforts don’t matter.

We’re joined by our amazing friend Becky Manley, who’s been living with Stage IV breast cancer since 2022. Becky gets candid about what actually helps (and what doesn’t), how to balance showing up without burning out, and why sometimes it’s okay to just say, “I don’t know what to say.” From navigating treatment updates to keeping it real when things get heavy, we’re covering it all.

✨ Key Takeaways:

• It’s the Little Things: Small, consistent gestures mean more than grand statements.
• Be Honest About Your Feelings: It’s okay to admit when you’re unsure or overwhelmed.
• Thoughtful > Perfect: Your friend doesn’t need perfection—they need you to show up.
• Kids and Cancer: Supporting a friend’s family can be just as impactful as supporting them.
• Balance Is Key: It’s okay to protect your own mental health while being a supportive friend.

🎁 Links to Family Resources:

• American Cancer Society
• Fred Hutch
• Camp KESEM

We know it’s hard to know what to do or say when someone you love is fighting cancer. But showing up—even imperfectly—is what matters. Tune in for practical tips, real talk, and a whole lot of heart. 💪