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2125: How to Turn Tough Conversations Into Learning Opportunities by Dr. Laura Markham of Aha Parenting

04.04.2024 - By Optimal Living Daily | Greg AudinoPlay

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Episode 2125:

Dr. Laura Markham offers transformative insights on navigating tough conversations with children at Aha Parenting.com. By prioritizing understanding, managing personal emotions, and fostering a safe environment, Markham demonstrates how conflicts become opportunities for growth and deeper connection. Her approach challenges parents to shift perspectives, ensuring that each difficult dialogue strengthens the bond with their child.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.ahaparenting.com/read/conversations-kids

Quotes to ponder:

"Starting out on the offensive will only slam the doors of communication. If you can control your emotions and keep the conversation safe, your child may be able to stop being defensive and start sharing."

"Don't take it personally. This isn't really about you. It's about them: their tangled up feelings, their difficulty controlling themselves, their immature ability to understand and express their emotions."

"Remember that more than one perspective can be true at once. Assume your child has a reason for her views or behavior. It may not be what you would consider a good reason, but she has a reason."

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