When to date, how to date, know the person who you are dating, don't take sex for relationship. A penis can't help pay bills, a penis can't be dateable, You must date the person for who they are and go after the heart.  What makes them tick, are they romantic, are they trying to get to know you for you or are they trying to get into your pants?  Never change for no one.  Be happy just the way you are. A person should always accept you just the way you are and accepting your heart.