Essays by Ken Lane

Howdy: How to Disarm Your Distractions With Friendliness


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Have you ever noticed how most folks you cross on the street will mirror your demeanor?

A nod for a nod.

A wave for wave.

A "good, thanks" for a "howareya?"

Ok, maybe a hug attempt receives a "whoa whoa whoa, easy there, big guy."

For the most part, you can disarm most folks with "friendly enough" neutrality—shifting your weight toward kindness.

Thoughts tend to work the same way.

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