In episode 104 of How To Matter, I try my hand at the guru thing. Of course, I don't pretend to be a full fledge guru but I like to pursue the notion of being a guru-in-training. Whatever our goal, we have to start somewhere. For this pass at the guru thing, I offer a success strategy you may find useful as you pursue making a difference with people who make a difference to you; since you succeed only in so far as they are successful.