04.10.2024 - By Tami West
Recently I listened to a stress management podcast. I really liked her style and her content. It was odd, but there was one thing she said that struck me as she spoke about journaling: When we put our worries onto paper, it moves them from the emotions center to the thinking center. And then she moved on.
I thought, "I’ve given advice like that before. And moved on."
What I found myself wanting was examples. Stories. What did it look like when YOU did that? What worked? What didn’t?
That’s what we’re doing today.
First, I dug into that Stress in America report we discussed last week (click here to listen to that episode). I thought what do people need? What are they struggling with? As you may expect, the numbers were worse for women than for men, so I decided to go that direction for the next 3 weeks. Even though I’m targeting women here, the stories and advice transcend gender in many areas.
Next I looked at the top I for women, according to the report. They were:
58% family responsibilities
50% consumed by worries regarding money
49% relationships
So that’s where we’re going. Today, we’ll talk about family. Next week money. The final week, relationships
Next, I did some specific research and have 4 recent studies to share with you (Link and info in show notes at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/stress-awareness-month-part-ii-family-responsibilities)
So women want/need help! But what experience do I have to talk to you about family responsibilities? Here's a bit of my background:
· 3 biological children born 1988-1992
· Had my 1st son when my 1st husband was in the military. We were in Wichita, KS with no support whatsoever and my son was a very colicky baby.
· I was in a psychiatric hospital when they were 2,4,6
· Single mom of those 3 from 1998-2003
· Got my master’s degree during that time
· Gained 5 stepchildren in 2003
· Traveled while 5 of the 8 still lived at home
· Took care of my mentally ill mother with dementia while traveling
· Cared for my father with Alzheimer’s
Did I do a great job during these seasons? Let's evaluate