We as believers ascribe many of our inclinations to the leading of the Holy Spirit. That may be true... but it is important to realize that there are other forces at work within us. Our own filters and perceptions also speak into our brain, and can trick us into thinking we are hearing from the Ruach, when really we are hearing from our past hurts, pains, experiences, etc. We need to ask Adonai for help in distinguishing between these two competing voices.