Everyone is doing it –Kim is now Shanti. Brian is now Kashmir, should I change my name to let people know I’m woke? Why seekers change names, how it shapes identity, and what it means in non-duality.

In this episode, Kiran, Leela, and Cami explore the fascinating world of spiritual names—why seekers feel called to change them, how names reflect identity, and what it means to take on a“true name” in non-duality. —this conversation reveals the deep relationship between names, awakening, and authenticity.

What you’ll learn:

 ✨Why names often don’t reflect who we truly are
✨How spiritual names can support awakening and transformation
✨Personal stories of name changes in non-dual practice
✨ How identity, freedom, and authenticity are tied to what we call ourselves

This conversation isn’t about whether you “should” have a spiritual name—it’s about uncovering what’s alive beneath the surface, and how even names can be used as doorways into freedom.

If this resonates, leave us a comment on YouTube so we can continue the conversation together: Join Here

💌Last call for fall classes! Embodiment begins the 3rd week of September (registration closes early Sept). Here

✨ Get the book, Tools for Sanity — A deep dive into ego death and the unraveling of identity, with practical tools for integrating Source into daily life. [Purchase Here]

✨✨ Craving deep peace? — Experience Energy Healing sessions with Leela. Held in a field of presence, these sessions help rewire physical or emotional pain so you can live with ease and joy. [Discover More Here]

00:00 – Intro: What’s in a name?
02:30 – Why do spiritual seekers change names?
07:15 – Kiran’s journey from Tracy → Trace → Kiran
15:40 – The meaning of “Kiran” in Sanskrit and awakening
20:55 – Cami’s naming ceremony with Mooji (Sitarama)
28:30 – Leela’s shift from Deborah to Leela (Divine Play)
37:45 – Nicknames, identity, and what actually “sticks”
43:20 – Embarrassing names & letting them go
49:15 – The deeper meaning of names in prophecy and scripture
55:00 – Why it’s okay to reinvent yourself multiple times
1:01:20 – Closing reflections + invitation to share your name story

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Produced by Kiran Trace and Leela Sutter

We continue the deep dive into Kiran’s transformative teaching: Red Love vs Blue Love.

In Part 1, we uncovered how much of what we call love is actually attachment-clingy romance, twin flame myths, and even parenting roles that are really about ownership and identity. In contrast, this second part takes us deeper into what true intimacy looks like beyond attachment.

In Part 2, we take the conversation deeper with Kiran, Leela, and Cami. Together, they illuminate the difference between Red Love and Blue Love-and how shifting from one to the other transforms every relationship in your life.

🔴 Red Love – why it’s so addictive, because cultural myths around romance and family keep us chasing fulfillment. As a result, we often fall into the hidden suffering that comes with attachment.

🔵 Blue Love – the living practice of intimacy without clinging. Instead of chasing fulfillment, unconditional love flows naturally when we release filters, roles, and old stories.

Through raw conversations and real-life examples, you’ll discover the following insights. For example:

✨ Why Red Love feels irresistible (and why it never satisfies)
✨ How myths of “perfect partner” and “happy family” feed suffering
✨ What true alignment in relationship actually looks like
✨ Discover ways to practice daily intimacy without attachment
✨ Stories of parenting, family, and partnership transformed through Blue Love

If you’ve ever longed for relationships that feel free, intimate, and deeply alive, this episode offers a practical non-dual map to living as love itself. Therefore, it’s a valuable guide for anyone seeking transformation in love and intimacy.

🎧 Tune In Now  🎧
If you’d like to leave a comment on YouTube so we can discuss more: Join Here

💌   The fall embodiment class starts in Sept! You can register for great packages that include 1:1 sessions with Leela.   Here

✨ Get the book, Tools for Sanity – A deep dive into ego death and the unraveling of identity, with practical tools for attaining and integrating God and Divine Source in your day to day.  Purchase Here

✨ ✨ Craving deep peace? – Experience Energy Healing sessions with Leela. Designed to hold you in a field of presence and allow you to rewire physical or emotional pain, so you can live with ease and joy. Discover more Here

00:00 – Intro: Picking up from Part 1 of Red Love, Blue Love
02:15 – Why Red Love feels so addictive
06:30 – Exploring the filters that block intimacy
10:45 – Family myths & chasing connection through roles
15:22 – Plot twist: The unconditional love you crave is YOU
18:40 – Blue Love as actual intimacy: freedom + joy
23:05 – How attachments distort parenting & partnerships
29:12 – A real-life example: unpacking “family time” attachments
36:40 – The practice of living Blue Love daily
41:55 – Personal stories on attachments (birthdays, expectations, roles)
48:30 – The ongoing practice: noticing where we hook into Red Love
53:00 – Final reflections: relationships as mirrors of unconditional love
55:00 – Links + last call for fall classes

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We genuinely appreciate your insights, reflections, and curiosities. → Email us anytime at [email protected]

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We all long for love—but what if much of what we call love is actually attachment?

What if the “I can’t live without you” kind of passion, the clingy parenting, or the twin flame obsession we’ve been taught to see as the highest form of love… is really a form of suffering disguised as devotion?

In this episode, Kiran, Leela, and Cami unpack one of Kiran’s most transformative teachings: Red Love vs Blue Love.

🔴 Red Love: the clingy, attached, agenda-driven kind of love we’ve been taught to celebrate—where romance, parenting, or even friendship becomes about ownership, exclusivity, and identity.

🔵 Blue Love: a radically different way of loving—cool, spacious, free, and without agenda. This non-attached love opens us to Source, to truth, and to the ability to meet others as they are without carrying them or needing them to define us. Through stories, examples, and lived experience, we explore:

✨ Why we confuse attachment for real love

✨ The hidden suffering inside exclusivity & twin flame myths

✨ The difference between “Hollywood romance” and Source love

✨ How Blue Love brings more compassion, intimacy, and freedom into parenting, friendships, and romantic partnerships

✨ What it feels like to live in a field of love that doesn’t begin or end with another person

This is Part 1 of the Red Love/Blue Love teaching. Next week, in Part 2, we’ll go even deeper into what it means to embody true love that is unconditional, ever-present, and limitless.

🎧 Tune In Now  🎧 If you’d like to leave a comment on YouTube so we can discuss more: Join Here

Show Notes:

💌   The fall embodiment class starts in Sept! You can register for great packages that include 1:1 sessions with Leela.   Here

✨ Get the book, Tools for Sanity — A deep dive into ego death and the unraveling of identity, with practical tools for attaining and integrating God and Divine Source in your day to day.  Purchase Here

✨ ✨ Craving deep peace? — Experience Energy Healing sessions with Leela. Designed to hold you in a field of presence and allow you to rewire physical or emotional pain, so you can live with ease and joy. Discover more Here

00:00 – Intro: Why talk about love & attachment

02:10 – Red Love vs Blue Love explained

06:45 – Kiran’s teaching origin story (Ilsa & the “cool” kind of love)

12:30 – What makes attached love (Red Love) toxic

18:20 – Why Blue Love feels so different from Hollywood romance

23:45 – Leela’s personal story: Red Love, loss, and choosing God

31:15 – Exclusive vs inclusive love (and the twin flame trap) 38:20 – The shift into unconditional Source love 43:00 – How Blue Love transforms parenting & relationships

47:50 – Healthy detachment: caring without carrying

50:15 – Closing reflections + Fall class registration

We’d love to hear from you! → Share your thoughts in the Humans Decoded Facebook Group

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Hosted by Kiran Trace and Co.

Produced by Kiran Trace and Leela Sutter

Part 2 of what happens when our mind interferes and distorts the choice we feel is coming from our heart. Can we trust that voice? Or is there a mental layer of fear very subtly distorting that voice? What about your gut? Or your instinct? Are they being subtly distorted?

Kiran Trace, Cami Carlow,  and Leela Sutter offer us some masterful, practical advice for how to notice if there is a mental layer creating a complexity, and what we can do about that! Part 2, lets begin…

🎧 Tune In Now  🎧 If you’d like to leave a comment on YouTube so we can discuss more: Join Here

Show Notes:

💌   The fall embodiment class starts in Sept! You can register for great packages that include 1:1 sessions with Leela.   Here

✨ Get the book, Tools for Sanity — A deep dive into ego death and the unraveling of identity, with practical tools for attaining and integrating God and Divine Source in your day to day.  Purchase Here

✨ ✨ Craving deep peace? — Experience Energy Healing sessions with Leela. Designed to hold you in a field of presence and allow you to rewire physical or emotional pain, so you can live with ease and joy. Discover more Here

We’d love to hear from you! → Share your thoughts in the Humans Decoded Facebook Group

We genuinely appreciate your insights, reflections, and curiosities. → Email us anytime at [email protected]

Be the first to hear about new episodes, events, and exclusive content. → Subscribe to the newsletter

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Hosted by Kiran Trace and Co.

Produced by Kiran Trace and Leela Sutter

The age old wisdom: “make decisions with your heart”, is sound advice, even backed by science. A lot of manifestation tools are based on this principle. But what happens when our mind interferes and distorts the choice we feel is coming from our heart? Can we trust that voice? Or is there a mental layer of fear very subtly distorting that voice? What about your gut? Or your instinct? Are they being subtly distorted?

Kiran Trace, Cami Carlow,  and Leela Sutter offer us some masterful, practical advice for how to notice if there is a mental layer creating a complexity, and what we can do about that!

🎧 Tune In Now  🎧 If you’d like to leave a comment on YouTube so we can discuss more: Join Here

Show Notes:

💌   The fall embodiment class starts in Sept! You can register for great packages that include 1:1 sessions with Leela.   Here

✨ Get the book, Tools for Sanity — A deep dive into ego death and the unraveling of identity, with practical tools for attaining and integrating God and Divine Source in your day to day.  Purchase Here

✨ ✨ Craving deep peace? — Experience Energy Healing sessions with Leela. Designed to hold you in a field of presence and allow you to rewire physical or emotional pain, so you can live with ease and joy. Discover more Here

We’d love to hear from you! → Share your thoughts in the Humans Decoded Facebook Group

We genuinely appreciate your insights, reflections, and curiosities. → Email us anytime at [email protected]

Be the first to hear about new episodes, events, and exclusive content. → Subscribe to the newsletter

Follow Humans Decoded

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Hosted by Kiran Trace and Co.

Produced by Kiran Trace and Leela Sutter

Kiran Trace, Cami Carlow and Leela Sutter dive into a necessary conversation about personal boundaries.

Show Notes:

💌   The fall embodiment class starts in Sept! You can register now!  Here

✨ Get my book, Tools for Sanity – A deep dive into ego death and the unraveling of identity, with practical tools for attaining and integrating God and Divine Source in your day to day.  Purchase Here

✨ ✨ Craving deep peace? – Experience Energy Healing sessions with Leela. Designed to hold you in a field of presence and allow you to rewire physical or emotional pain, so you can live with ease and joy. Discover more Here

✨ Curious about my upcoming class? – Subscribe here to be the first to know when enrollment opens! 💃🏻

We’d love to hear from you! → Share your thoughts in the Humans Decoded Facebook Group

We genuinely appreciate your insights, reflections, and curiosities. → Email us anytime at [email protected]

Be the first to hear about new episodes, events, and exclusive content. → Subscribe to the newsletter

Follow Humans Decoded

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Hosted by Kiran Trace and Co.

Produced by Kiran Trace and Leela Sutter

Kiran Trace, Cami Carlow and Leela Sutter take us inside the life changing 7 days of summer retreat. They share the incredible joy, transformations,and fulfilment that this week rolls out.

There were miracles, spiritual awakenings, Matrix tricks to see through the illusion and uplevel to One. And all kinds of play, rest, and reset.   Tune In Now  And If you’d like leave a comment on YouTube so we can discuss more: Join Here

Show Notes:

💌   Get full access to our transformative 9-Day Challenge Here

✨ Get Kiran’s book, Tools for Sanity — A deep dive into ego death and the unraveling of identity, with practical tools for attaining and integrating God and Divine Source in your day to day.  Purchase Here

✨ ✨ Craving deep peace? — Experience Energy Healing sessions with Leela. Designed to hold you in a field of presence and allow you to rewire physical or emotional pain, so you can live with ease and joy. Discover more Here

✨ Curious about the upcoming class? — Subscribe here to be the first to know when enrollment opens! 💃🏻

We’d love to hear from you! → Share your thoughts in the Humans Decoded Facebook Group

We genuinely appreciate your insights, reflections, and curiosities. → Email us anytime at [email protected]

Be the first to hear about new episodes, events, and exclusive content. → Subscribe to the newsletter

Follow Humans Decoded

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Facebook → https://facebook.com/kirantrace

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Twitter → https://twitter.com/kirantrace

Hosted by Kiran Trace and Co.

Produced by Kiran Trace and Leela Sutter

Kiran Trace and Cami Carlow dive into part 2 of this hugely clear and practical map to understand how to expand your natural flow with abundance and money! Decoding our unique blueprint makes this process even more clear and accessible. So, this episode is for you if you feel:

Chaotic with your money,

Afraid to really look at your own patterns around money,

Find yourself stuck in fear or shame every time you make a big purchase

Spin on cliche stories that money is not spiritual or godly

Hear stories of miracles when students apply these simple spiritual truths. Learn how your avatar is designed for endless abundance in its own unique way — and how you can have the money you want, and change your limiting habits.

🎧 Tune In Now  🎧 If you’d like to leave a comment on YouTube so we can discuss more: Join Here

Show Notes:

💌   Get full access to our transformative 9-Day Challenge Here

✨ Get my book, Tools for Sanity — A deep dive into ego death and the unraveling of identity, with practical tools for attaining and integrating God and Divine Source in your day to day.  Purchase Here

✨ ✨ Craving deep peace? — Experience Energy Healing sessions with Leela. Designed to hold you in a field of presence and allow you to rewire physical or emotional pain, so you can live with ease and joy. Discover more Here

✨ Curious about my upcoming class? — Subscribe here to be the first to know when enrollment opens! 💃🏻

We’d love to hear from you! → Share your thoughts in the Humans Decoded Facebook Group

We genuinely appreciate your insights, reflections, and curiosities. → Email us anytime at [email protected]

Be the first to hear about new episodes, events, and exclusive content. → Subscribe to the newsletter

Follow Humans Decoded

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Facebook → https://facebook.com/kirantrace

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Twitter → https://twitter.com/kirantrace

Hosted by Kiran Trace and Co.

Produced by Kiran Trace and Leela Sutter

Money and spiritual wisdom are very intimately connected.  If you unlock some very practical spiritual insights you will start to expand into a natural capacity for $$ and all kinds of abundance.  Kiran Trace and Cami Carlow dive into simple and practical ways to understand your own blocks to money flowing freely, and how to clearly link the missing pieces of your own puzzle. Decoding our unique blueprint makes this process even more clear and accessible. So, this episode is for you if you feel:

feeling chaotic with your money,

Afraid to really look at your own patterns around money,

Find yourself stuck in fear or shame every time you make a big purchase

Spin on cliche stories that money is not spiritual or godly

 Hear stories of miracles when students apply these simple spiritual truths.. Learn how your avatar is designed for endless abundance in its own unique way — and how you can have the money you want, and change your limiting habits. 

🎧 Tune In Now  🎧 If you’d like to leave a comment on YouTube so we can discuss more: Join Here

Show Notes:

💌   Get full access to our transformative 9-Day Challenge Here

✨ Get my book, Tools for Sanity — A deep dive into ego death and the unraveling of identity, with practical tools for attaining and integrating God and Divine Source in your day to day.  Purchase Here

✨ ✨ Craving deep peace? — Experience Energy Healing sessions with Leela. Designed to hold you in a field of presence and allow you to rewire physical or emotional pain, so you can live with ease and joy. Discover more Here

✨ Curious about my upcoming class? — Subscribe here to be the first to know when enrollment opens! 💃🏻

We’d love to hear from you! → Share your thoughts in the Humans Decoded Facebook Group

We genuinely appreciate your insights, reflections, and curiosities. → Email us anytime at [email protected]

Be the first to hear about new episodes, events, and exclusive content. → Subscribe to the newsletter

Follow Humans Decoded

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Facebook → https://facebook.com/kirantrace

Tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@kirantrace

Twitter → https://twitter.com/kirantrace

Hosted by Kiran Trace and Co.

Produced by Kiran Trace and Leela Sutter

Most of us don’t use 90% of our brain’s capacity — but what if it was simple to start to expand into this capacity? This is part 2 of Humans Decoded, Stuck is an Illusion.  Kiran and the crew shine a light on the emotional loops and false stories that keep us frozen — and show you how to reclaim your authentic capacity for more clarity as you step forward to evolve through emotional pain and exhaustion.

Discover how to expand into divine presence in order to build more neurons in your brain. Hear stories of miracles when students do this.. Learn how your brain is designed for infinite growth — and how awareness, not control, builds the new pathways that lead to clarity, fulfillment, and lasting change 🌸

🎧 Tune In Now  🎧 If you’d like to leave a comment on YouTube so we can discuss more: Join Here

Show Notes:

💌   Get full access to our transformative 9-Day Challenge Here

✨ Get my book, Tools for Sanity — A deep dive into ego death and the unraveling of identity, with practical tools for attaining and integrating God and Divine Source in your day to day.  Purchase Here

✨ ✨ Craving deep peace? — Experience Energy Healing sessions with Leela. Designed to hold you in a field of presence and allow you to rewire physical or emotional pain, so you can live with ease and joy. Discover more Here

✨ Curious about my upcoming class? — Subscribe here to be the first to know when enrollment opens! 💃🏻

We’d love to hear from you! → Share your thoughts in the Humans Decoded Facebook Group

We genuinely appreciate your insights, reflections, and curiosities. → Email us anytime at [email protected]

Be the first to hear about new episodes, events, and exclusive content. → Subscribe to the newsletter

Follow Humans Decoded

Instagram → https://instagram.com/kirantrace

YouTube → https://youtube.com/kirantrace

Facebook → https://facebook.com/kirantrace

Tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@kirantrace

Twitter → https://twitter.com/kirantrace

Hosted by Kiran Trace and Co.

Produced by Kiran Trace and Leela Sutter