Hurt people, hurt people.
Stop caring what people think!
"I'm constantly amazed by how easily we love ourselves above all others, yet we put more stock in the opinions of others than in our own estimation of self... How much credence we give to the opinions our peers have of us and how little to our very own!"
- Marcus Aurelius
Oh, and make your God damned bed.
If you change your story, you can change your life.