Have you ever wondered how people fall in love with abusive controlling partners? I have thought a lot about the experience that I had, and how easily he had me hooked on him. This episode is the beginning of a pivotal evening that would set the stage for me to become hooked on my abusive narcissistic partner. I determined falling in love with a man like this was similar to a frog being slowly cooked to death in a slow simmering pot of water. When does the hot tub turn deadly for the frog?