Forgiveness is one of those things you can know you're supposed to do and still not be able to make yourself do it. This week I'm sharing something pretty vulnerable. A year of holding on, a week that forced my hand, and what Jesus and Paul actually say about what forgiveness is and what it isn't. We dig into Matthew 6 and the Lord's Prayer, where Jesus ties our forgiveness directly to our willingness to forgive others. Heavy stuff. And then Paul in Ephesians 4, where he lays out a path that starts not with forgiving but with letting go of bitterness and anger first. Maybe that's the actual first step nobody talks about. This one's personal. Pour something good and pull up a chair.