When life kicks you in the balls, we are talking to the fella here right, do not use it as an opportunity to talk bad about life, spouse, family, children!  Find the good in everything and repeat it for your life. Listen to this If you fail never give up because F.A.I.L is an acronym for FIRST ATTEMPT IN LEARNING.  End is not the end in fact E.N.D is an acronym for EFFORD NEVER DIES. If you get NO as an answer N.O. is an acronym for NEXT OPPORTUNITY.  We have to speak life over ourselves and everyone connected to us.  

The scripture teaches in Proverbs 18:21; Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit.