" I don't need anybody" is a lie that we must stop telling ourselves. You are either going to get a lesson or a blessing from a situation dealing with people and either way it goes however you may look at it you still need them to get to that outcome. If you truly feel like you can do everything that needs to be done for your life and for yourself I challenge you to not accept any help from anyone for anything whatsoever. Don't just talk your s*** walk your s***.