I just went thru a bad breakup and I'm not thinking about ANYBODY right now, just myself, but then I read this book at the library one day called "Play Them Like a Violin" and it's about a totally unbothered woman who slept with random dudes an leads them along an then smash their fuckin hearts! Hurt them like they hurt her an got her power back.......so I did this an amassed quite a body count, IT WAS SO MUCH FUN, but then as I got more attached to these dudes, they weren't the players I thought an they all started having feelings for ME! My heart gets confused an finally I decided I was juggling too many men!