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What happens when God doesn't call you to just one thing but five?
In this episode of If This Is It, host Tosin sits down with a Pastor Tolu Labeodan who is simultaneously a doctor, a businessman, a pastor, a husband, and a father. And somehow… he's not burned out. He's not bitter. He's grateful.
This conversation gets into the real questions: How do you juggle that many responsibilities without losing your mind? What do you do on the days you don't feel like showing up? How do you prioritize when everything feels urgent? And what do you say to someone who's been knocked down so hard by life that they can't even see their own potential anymore?
You'll hear about unexpected doors God opened, the role upbringing plays in shaping your capacity, why asking for help is harder than it should be (especially in our culture), and a perspective on faith and motivation that might challenge how you think about both.
Whether you're feeling pulled in multiple directions, stuck in a season that doesn't make sense, or wondering how to build structure without losing peace, this one's for you.
⏱️ TIMESTAMPS
0:00 – Intro & Pre-show Banter
5:58 – Purpose vs. Unanswered Questions
8:47 – Welcome & Meet Our Guest
10:04 – When God Calls You to Multiple Things
11:02 – Passion vs. Calling — Is There a Difference?
13:06 – Stewarding Yourself Toward the Goal
17:02 – Recognizing God's Hand at Every Step
19:05 – How Upbringing Shapes Your Capacity
21:10 – "Did You Ever Feel Like This Isn't Me?"
24:46 – A Day in the Life
27:55 – How to Do It All Without Losing Your Mind
30:26 – Powering Through When You Don't Feel Like It
33:13 – Advice for Someone Who Feels Stuck
41:09 – When Life Deals a Serious Blow
43:01 – Why Asking for Help Is So Hard
48:57 – Finding Your Circle
53:23 – The Price of Multiple Callings
55:52 – The First Thing You Should Do If You Feel Called in Multiple Directions
🔗 CONNECT WITH US
Subscribe to If This Is It on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcasts
Follow us on Instagram: @ifthisisitpodcast
By Tosin AssanWhat happens when God doesn't call you to just one thing but five?
In this episode of If This Is It, host Tosin sits down with a Pastor Tolu Labeodan who is simultaneously a doctor, a businessman, a pastor, a husband, and a father. And somehow… he's not burned out. He's not bitter. He's grateful.
This conversation gets into the real questions: How do you juggle that many responsibilities without losing your mind? What do you do on the days you don't feel like showing up? How do you prioritize when everything feels urgent? And what do you say to someone who's been knocked down so hard by life that they can't even see their own potential anymore?
You'll hear about unexpected doors God opened, the role upbringing plays in shaping your capacity, why asking for help is harder than it should be (especially in our culture), and a perspective on faith and motivation that might challenge how you think about both.
Whether you're feeling pulled in multiple directions, stuck in a season that doesn't make sense, or wondering how to build structure without losing peace, this one's for you.
⏱️ TIMESTAMPS
0:00 – Intro & Pre-show Banter
5:58 – Purpose vs. Unanswered Questions
8:47 – Welcome & Meet Our Guest
10:04 – When God Calls You to Multiple Things
11:02 – Passion vs. Calling — Is There a Difference?
13:06 – Stewarding Yourself Toward the Goal
17:02 – Recognizing God's Hand at Every Step
19:05 – How Upbringing Shapes Your Capacity
21:10 – "Did You Ever Feel Like This Isn't Me?"
24:46 – A Day in the Life
27:55 – How to Do It All Without Losing Your Mind
30:26 – Powering Through When You Don't Feel Like It
33:13 – Advice for Someone Who Feels Stuck
41:09 – When Life Deals a Serious Blow
43:01 – Why Asking for Help Is So Hard
48:57 – Finding Your Circle
53:23 – The Price of Multiple Callings
55:52 – The First Thing You Should Do If You Feel Called in Multiple Directions
🔗 CONNECT WITH US
Subscribe to If This Is It on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcasts
Follow us on Instagram: @ifthisisitpodcast