Get it off my chest: Brief update on this journey.  10 months in, I have learned so much about myself.   It's important to know what you want, offer and can tolerate from someone.  It's even better when the past does not cloud your judgment.   Even though I do not like it here, I have grown to appreciate the value of waiting for something good.

Confession time:  The last time i was with a guy............ ***I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits. Follow me on awhole_lotoflip on Instagram, Twitter celibacy_muse or send me your thoughts at [email protected].