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For eight months, one name kept appearing in my dreams. I didn't understand why, until God showed me. Angels come in different forms.

This deeply personal solo episode is an ode to Baba Wasiu, our family driver of over fifty years. A man with no formal status, who shaped my character more than almost anyone else in my early life.

I get into why we overlook people we deem low in life, what the biblical stories of Elijah and Abraham teach us about discernment, and how to recognise and honour the unsung heroes who have shaped us, before it is too late. 🩷

Scripture references: Hebrews 13:2, Galatians 5:22-23

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I'll be honest, I was a little afraid to drop this one.

I have been living in the past lately. Scrolling through old pictures, rewatching old shows, secretly wishing for the version of my life that felt lighter and more carefree. And then God met me at 3am and said something I could not dodge.

In this solo episode I get very real about the nostalgia, the sleepless nights, and what God showed me about living in my rear view mirror. I share the spiritual tug of war I have been navigating, why this season is preparation and not punishment, and the five practical steps that are helping me move forward.

If you have been feeling a little off lately, this is your safe space. 

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 Friendship in adulthood is beautiful… but it’s also work. In this episode of I Have The Floor, I’m joined by Adeoti Onabolu convener of the friendship clarity space for a deep, honest conversation about godly friendship, adult friendships, and the spiritual nature of relationships.

We talk about how our parents’ friendships shaped the way we build relationships today, the unspoken expectations we carry into friendships, and why friendship breakups can hurt just as much as romantic ones. We also share real-life scenarios and practical ways to navigate conflict, boundaries, and growth, without losing yourself.

If you’ve ever wondered:
• “Why is making friends as an adult so hard?”
• “How do I know this friendship is healthy?”
• “When do I fight for a friendship… and when do I let it go?”
• “Are friendships spiritual?”
…this episode is for you.

📚 Adeoti’s books are linked below - if you’re serious about building better friendships and navigating friendships, go grab it:
➡️ BOOK LINK: folakeona.selar.com
You can also connect with her on her website: https://folakeona.com/

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Adeoti: @friendshipclarityspace
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💌 If you’re navigating friendship struggles or you’re questioning what “godly friendship” really looks like, you can also reach out to me via email: [email protected]  

👇🏾 Let’s talk in the comments:
What’s been the hardest part of adult friendships for you - making them, keeping them, or ending them?

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In this episode of I Have The Floor, Adeyele and Adaobi explore identity and self-confidence - how shame and comparison silence us, how we rebuild confidence from the inside out, and how faith helps us awaken the voice within. Honest, empowering, and practical. 

So many people look confident… but inside they’re battling insecurity, shame, and the fear of being “seen.” This episode is about identity - not the version shaped by opinions, but the one rooted in truth.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why confidence is often an identity issue
• The difference between being loud vs being secure
• How shame and fear make us shrink
• Rebuilding self-confidence with faith and honesty
• Learning to speak up again — in life, love, work, and purpose

Scriptures to reflect on (theme-aligned):

• Psalm 139:14 (fearfully and wonderfully made)
• 2 Timothy 1:7 (power, love, sound mind)
• Proverbs 29:25 (fear of man is a snare)

💬 Question: Where have you been shrinking — and what would it look like to awaken your voice again?

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 In this episode of I Have The Floor, Adeyele and Adaobi explore identity and self-confidence - how shame and comparison silence us, how we rebuild confidence from the inside out, and how faith helps us awaken the voice within. Honest, empowering, and practical. 

So many people look confident… but inside they’re battling insecurity, shame, and the fear of being “seen.” This episode is about identity - not the version shaped by opinions, but the one rooted in truth.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why confidence is often an identity issue
• The difference between being loud vs being secure
• How shame and fear make us shrink
• Rebuilding self-confidence with faith and honesty
• Learning to speak up again — in life, love, work, and purpose

Scriptures to reflect on (theme-aligned):

• Psalm 139:14 (fearfully and wonderfully made)
• 2 Timothy 1:7 (power, love, sound mind)
• Proverbs 29:25 (fear of man is a snare)

💬 Question: Where have you been shrinking — and what would it look like to awaken your voice again?

✅ Subscribe, leave a comment, and share with someone who needs a confidence reset.

Click the link below to Purchase ‘Awaken the voice within” by Adaobi Onanuga - https://selar.com/m/adaobionanuga?fbclid=PARlRTSARPZ7BleHRuA2FlbQIxMABzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA8xMjQwMjQ1NzQyODc0MTQAAacX9pCY2merNX59CpU0T4EA3TRqBzQ55eLlXQcsUVrE3-BifpRl4FGZE1knew_aem_yUM_HDCLPatwvM2wVnGYNQ

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We all love the idea of growth… until growth starts correcting us. 😭
 In this episode, I’m talking about my real accountability partner: the Holy Spirit.

Not the one who just nods and says “it’s okay babe.”
 he one who says, “Sis… don’t do that.”
The one who checks your tone, checks your motives, checks your thoughts, and still loves you through it.

In this episode, we cover:

• The difference between conviction and condemnation
• What it looks like when the Holy Spirit “checks” you
• Why correction is not rejection
• How to stop ignoring the promptings
• Living led, not just living loud

Scriptures to reflect on (theme-aligned):

• John 14:26 (the Helper / Comforter)
• John 16:13 (Spirit of truth guides)
• Galatians 5:16–25 (walking by the Spirit / fruit)

💬 Question: When was the last time you felt the Holy Spirit nudge you — and did you listen?

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Worry doesn’t always announce itself - sometimes it quietly becomes your default setting. In this episode of I Have The Floor, I’m talking about the worries of life: the mental load, the spirals, the “what ifs,” the pressure to have everything together, and the moments where anxiety makes you feel like you’re carrying life alone.

This is a faith-rooted conversation, but it’s also real and relatable. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, emotionally tired, mentally noisy, or like your mind won’t rest I want you to know: you’re not the only one, and you’re not stuck.

In this episode, we cover:

• Why worry feels “normal” but still steals peace
• How spiralling starts (and how to catch it early)
• What it means to return to God when your mind is loud
• Faith that’s practical, not performative
• How to breathe again — spiritually and emotionally

Scriptures to reflect on (mentioned/linked to the theme):

• Matthew 6:25–34 (do not worry)
• Philippians 4:6–7 (peace that guards your mind)
• 1 Peter 5:7 (cast your cares)

💬 Question for you: What’s been weighing on your mind lately - and what would it look like to give God one piece of it today?

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In this episode, Adeyeli reflects on the biblical figure Nicodemus, exploring themes of faith, societal pressure, and the importance of boldness in one's relationship with Christ. She discusses how many believers, like Nicodemus, may feel trapped by societal expectations and fear, leading to a muted expression of their faith. The conversation encourages listeners to recognize their own 'gilded cages' and to embrace their calling with courage and confidence.

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In this unapologetic reminder, I’m calling myself out too—because sometimes we forget just how much authority God has placed in our mouths. This episode is a wake-up call to stop speaking carelessly, especially when God has already spoken clearly. Life and death truly live in the power of the tongue (Proverbs 18:21), and many of us are unknowingly sabotaging the very things we’re praying for. 

We talk about casual words, cultural language, spiritual laziness, and why God takes your words more seriously than you do. Whether it’s motherhood, friendships, or faith—you’ll leave this episode convicted and empowered to speak what God said, not what you see. 

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Have you ever felt unqualified, even when you know God has called you to something greater? In this episode, I open up about my personal battle with imposter syndrome and the weight of feeling like I'm not “enough” to speak on faith, purpose, or life.

Through honest reflection and scripture, I explore how even the most well-known biblical figures wrestled with self-doubt—and yet, God still used them. This conversation is a reminder that your past doesn't disqualify your purpose.

Whether you're struggling with self-confidence, trying to find your voice, or wondering if you're really the right person for the job—this one is for you. Let’s talk about how to overcome imposter syndrome with God at the centre, embrace your calling, and grow in confidence through faith and community.

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