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She is the CEO of the ACT Foundation. A marketplace powerhouse. A kingdom woman. And she said she hasn't even started yet.

In this rich conversation Ms Osayi Alile talks about joy as a deliberate choice, leaving your bags at the feet of Christ, when God says no to what looks like a yes, the cost of real leadership, and the moment she lost her father and God said: I am your cover.

This one is for every woman building something in public while carrying more than anyone can see. Come and listen. 🩷

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What does it look like when God is truly in your matter?

In this episode, Yele sits down with Korede, the photographer and creative behind Photonimi, to talk about faith, calling, and the journey of building something you love with God at the centre.

Korede shares how photography became more than a skill, it became a ministry, and what happened when he stopped running the plan and let God into the process. This is a conversation about creative purpose, seasons of waiting, and what it means to move with intention when God has already gone ahead of you.

Warm, honest, and full of the kind of faith that doesn't sugarcoat the hard parts. This one is for every woman watching someone else carry their dream and wondering if God has forgotten about hers.

Find Korede on Instagram: @photonimi
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I have been sitting on this one for over a year. I felt embarrassed. Not sure if I was ready. But God kept nudging me. So here it is.

I was in a six-year relationship I had no business being in. I knew it from day one. God told me. But my need for public validation was louder than his voice.

In this deeply personal solo episode I talk about what was really driving that relationship, what low self-confidence costs you, why I intentionally ignored God for years, and what his intervention looked like when I finally stopped.

This one is for anyone who is staying somewhere out of comfort or fear rather than faith. And for every parent who needs to hear about building their children's identity in Christ before the world does it for them.

God does not settle when it comes to you. So why are you settling? 🩷

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She took two to three years to make the decision to leave her marriage. And she did it afraid.

In this honest and tender conversation Taiwo talks about leaving, healing, single motherhood and the peace she found on the other side. She shares why she started her healing journey a year before physically leaving, how she built a co-parenting arrangement built on respect, and why staying for the children is not always the loving choice.

She also challenges the shame that Nigerian and Christian culture places on divorced women and asks the question that nobody wants to ask out loud.

This one is for anyone in a difficult marriage, anyone who has already left, and anyone who needs to know there is life on the other side. 🩷

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Three friends. One sofa. No filter.

In this episode, I sit down with two of my friends, Temitayo and Damilola, and we get into the things that Nigerian mothers, wives, and women carry but rarely say out loud.

Parenting abroad. Marriage realities. The community we are all missing. What actually holds friendships together. How to choose a partner based on character and not just chemistry. And the things we wish somebody had told us before we got here.

This one is honest, warm and goes places. Come and listen. 🩷

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For eight months, one name kept appearing in my dreams. I didn't understand why, until God showed me. Angels come in different forms.

This deeply personal solo episode is an ode to Baba Wasiu, our family driver of over fifty years. A man with no formal status, who shaped my character more than almost anyone else in my early life.

I get into why we overlook people we deem low in life, what the biblical stories of Elijah and Abraham teach us about discernment, and how to recognise and honour the unsung heroes who have shaped us, before it is too late. 🩷

Scripture references: Hebrews 13:2, Galatians 5:22-23

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I'll be honest, I was a little afraid to drop this one.

I have been living in the past lately. Scrolling through old pictures, rewatching old shows, secretly wishing for the version of my life that felt lighter and more carefree. And then God met me at 3am and said something I could not dodge.

In this solo episode I get very real about the nostalgia, the sleepless nights, and what God showed me about living in my rear view mirror. I share the spiritual tug of war I have been navigating, why this season is preparation and not punishment, and the five practical steps that are helping me move forward.

If you have been feeling a little off lately, this is your safe space. 

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 Friendship in adulthood is beautiful… but it’s also work. In this episode of I Have The Floor, I’m joined by Adeoti Onabolu convener of the friendship clarity space for a deep, honest conversation about godly friendship, adult friendships, and the spiritual nature of relationships.

We talk about how our parents’ friendships shaped the way we build relationships today, the unspoken expectations we carry into friendships, and why friendship breakups can hurt just as much as romantic ones. We also share real-life scenarios and practical ways to navigate conflict, boundaries, and growth, without losing yourself.

If you’ve ever wondered:
• “Why is making friends as an adult so hard?”
• “How do I know this friendship is healthy?”
• “When do I fight for a friendship… and when do I let it go?”
• “Are friendships spiritual?”
…this episode is for you.

📚 Adeoti’s books are linked below - if you’re serious about building better friendships and navigating friendships, go grab it:
➡️ BOOK LINK: folakeona.selar.com
You can also connect with her on her website: https://folakeona.com/

✨ Connect with us on Instagram:
Adeoti: @friendshipclarityspace
I Have The Floor: @ihavethefloor_

💌 If you’re navigating friendship struggles or you’re questioning what “godly friendship” really looks like, you can also reach out to me via email: [email protected]  

👇🏾 Let’s talk in the comments:
What’s been the hardest part of adult friendships for you - making them, keeping them, or ending them?

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In this episode of I Have The Floor, Adeyele and Adaobi explore identity and self-confidence - how shame and comparison silence us, how we rebuild confidence from the inside out, and how faith helps us awaken the voice within. Honest, empowering, and practical. 

So many people look confident… but inside they’re battling insecurity, shame, and the fear of being “seen.” This episode is about identity - not the version shaped by opinions, but the one rooted in truth.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why confidence is often an identity issue
• The difference between being loud vs being secure
• How shame and fear make us shrink
• Rebuilding self-confidence with faith and honesty
• Learning to speak up again — in life, love, work, and purpose

Scriptures to reflect on (theme-aligned):

• Psalm 139:14 (fearfully and wonderfully made)
• 2 Timothy 1:7 (power, love, sound mind)
• Proverbs 29:25 (fear of man is a snare)

💬 Question: Where have you been shrinking — and what would it look like to awaken your voice again?

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 In this episode of I Have The Floor, Adeyele and Adaobi explore identity and self-confidence - how shame and comparison silence us, how we rebuild confidence from the inside out, and how faith helps us awaken the voice within. Honest, empowering, and practical. 

So many people look confident… but inside they’re battling insecurity, shame, and the fear of being “seen.” This episode is about identity - not the version shaped by opinions, but the one rooted in truth.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why confidence is often an identity issue
• The difference between being loud vs being secure
• How shame and fear make us shrink
• Rebuilding self-confidence with faith and honesty
• Learning to speak up again — in life, love, work, and purpose

Scriptures to reflect on (theme-aligned):

• Psalm 139:14 (fearfully and wonderfully made)
• 2 Timothy 1:7 (power, love, sound mind)
• Proverbs 29:25 (fear of man is a snare)

💬 Question: Where have you been shrinking — and what would it look like to awaken your voice again?

✅ Subscribe, leave a comment, and share with someone who needs a confidence reset.

Click the link below to Purchase ‘Awaken the voice within” by Adaobi Onanuga - https://selar.com/m/adaobionanuga?fbclid=PARlRTSARPZ7BleHRuA2FlbQIxMABzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA8xMjQwMjQ1NzQyODc0MTQAAacX9pCY2merNX59CpU0T4EA3TRqBzQ55eLlXQcsUVrE3-BifpRl4FGZE1knew_aem_yUM_HDCLPatwvM2wVnGYNQ

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 Don't forget to share this episode on your socials! Follow me on Instagram and Twitter @ihavethefloor_, and check out my TikTok @adeyelehasthefloor for more updates. Want to stay in touch or have questions? Send me an email at [email protected]—I love hearing from you! For all my links in one place, visit linktr.ee/Ihavethefloor