Best friends Shelby & Olivia have always shared a special bond- not just as adoptees, but as two people caught between cultures. One from South Korea, the other from China, they open up about the complexities of identity-never feeling quite Asian enough, yet never fully white either. In this episode, they share their journeys of self-discovery, the grief and loss woven into adoption and what they've learned about navigating life in between. With candor, depth and the kind of humor only best friends can bring, they also reflect on the adoption process their parents went through and what it all means now.