We are getting into all the tough love ways of being a better you... and YES, these things may hurt. Letting things go, people go... its all apart of the process.

It really could be super simple..

Sooooooo, a lot of people want to know somethings... and I am here to tell you something.

It has been a LONG TIME!

I wanted to come back to making my podcast and chatting with y'all but I wa honestly holding myself back from doing so because I was waiting for everything to be perfect... Y'all know how that goes..

This has been a hot topic all over social media.

It's obvious, everyone has their own opinion on it.

'Men should lead a woman in relationships, thats their job, they're the provide and protectors...'

These are just some things I hear, but here is my perspective on it.

Chemistry can be defined in many ways, depending on what you're looking for in life & relationships.

Everyones definition is meant to cater towards what they want in life...

But I have learned that you need more than just one aspect of chemistry to make things work..

Growth is beautiful..

The more I grow, the more I value the privacy I have and innerstand the positions I play in peoples lives.

Don't over stay your welcome in peoples lives, let me tell you..

You may end up learning a huge lesson.

Some people your only there to plant, others to water, and some to harvest... but not all three

You ever told your friends/family/SO something and it comes back to bite you..?

You get those "I told you so's" or that un-asked for opinion on what THEY would've done in the situation..

OR, they cannot let go of what YOU went through, so they try to keep you stuck when you already moved past it??

Yeah... me too.

That's why I no longer talk to many people about what it is I am going through.. I just journal it.

The growth is real.

And when I tell you, these karmic situations are EXCEPTIONALLY REAL!

With the men I dealt with in my life..they give some of the same traits.

And these patterns do not go unnoticed.

But as I continue to gain more experience... I lessen the amount of time I deal with these situations.

It has been a while..

I have been in a major transition period in my life and learning about the divine feminine and evolving into it at this time is DIFFERENT!

I am blessed for all experiences but I am just learning the divine feminine is hard to be in without the security of the small things.

Lets just talk about it.