Dylan & DiFranco, arrangement inspired by the Divine Miss M & an ukulele cover of ‘Joyful Girl’ I saw once on YouTube. Also inspired by my late great husband, sixteen years gone and still a huge part of the man I am, every damn day. ‘Cause I learned from you men can be sensitive, loving, humble, emotionally unavailable, comfortable, sexually fluid, courageous, strong in vulnerability, secure and still self-questioning. You are still the best human I’ve ever known and I wish I was half the person you were. Everything that’s left of you and your love I try to keep kindled in me. I love you more every year I’m alive and may I die before I forget you or lose my grasp on what made you amazing and worth keeping alive in any way in me.