-You have recently gone through a divorce. What have you learned from it? What is one piece of advice to those who desire to marry?  

-In your videos you talked about the loss of your brother:  In November, 2014, my brother died from complications from pneumonia, six months later, my dad that raised me passed away.  What was your grieving process like?   

-In a Tweet you said I’m mad that I can ask you for anything except for what I really wanted. Let’s talk about what you meant in that Tweet    

-You said in your blog: I spent years giving myself away; emotionally, physically and sexually. Sometimes by choice, sometimes lack of knowledge and courage, and a few unfortunate times against my will.  I feel a lot of black women have gone through the same thing. Let’s talk about this in detail  

-In the blog you talked about:  Saving yourself and making you a priority over family, relationships, etc…  This is a taboo conversation especially when it comes to women. How can women buy into this mindset?   

Bonus:  -why do the people I profess my love to, always seem to hurt me real bad in the end, and why do I keep losing more and more of myself after every break up.”   I feel this is common in most relationships, especially with women. How can we prevent it?   

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