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I struggled before I learned how to listen to my inner voice!
https://youtu.be/7eAFpMTXAWA
Today I talk about the difficult time I had finding and figuring out how to listen to my inner voice. I struggled for nearly a year talking with a therapist looking for validation and permission. Finally, I figured out that I needed to search harder within myself and listen to my inner voice. That was when everything started to change for me, very rapidly and eventually it has gotten much easier!
Also, shout out to my man Eric P. Thomas (former guest on Dreamers Podcast) for the awesome shirt I am rocking today! Check out his company!
Check out the YouTube video above or listen to the podcast on iTunes.
I hope you are all enjoying these mini episodes that I am publishing to YouTube. Please let me know what you think in the comments or shoot me an email. 🙂
Shoot me your questions to [email protected]
Episode 259
Transcription
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welcome everybody to the dreamers
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00:00:02,760 –> 00:00:06,990
podcast I’m your host your party
3
00:00:04,290 –> 00:00:11,280
unfortunately a big race is not here to
4
00:00:06,990 –> 00:00:14,580
be here with me here today today I want
5
00:00:11,280 –> 00:00:18,900
to talk about a topic that it took me
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00:00:14,580 –> 00:00:21,779
about a year of going to therapy to
7
00:00:18,900 –> 00:00:24,299
figure out and the whole time the answer
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00:00:21,779 –> 00:00:25,830
was right in front of me so leading up
9
00:00:24,300 –> 00:00:27,779
to the time which I was getting ready to
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00:00:25,830 –> 00:00:30,630
leave my family’s business i was going
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00:00:27,779 –> 00:00:34,739
to a therapist I was coming week after
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00:00:30,630 –> 00:00:37,500
week after week for an entire year and
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00:00:34,739 –> 00:00:40,440
all I was doing was complaining about my
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00:00:37,500 –> 00:00:42,510
working you know the things that weren’t
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00:00:40,440 –> 00:00:45,390
going right at work how I was frustrated
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with the reactions i was getting from
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both some of the employees family and
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everything and I was just I was ready to
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give up and be fed I was fed up with the
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whole situation and I had a therapist
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that refused to tell me that it was ok
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leave he was not willing to give me that
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permission and i wrote about this in my
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book 31like changing concepts is that
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you don’t need permission from anyone
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except yourself to do things that is
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that you you you and you want to do
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me myself and I he has tagged me myself
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and I radio South Anthony days I she
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totally permission to give yourself our
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provision for anyone else to give
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yourself permission to do things that it
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is that you want to do and that you feel
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is right for you so it took me a year to
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figure out the finally give myself that
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permission to say you know what enough
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is enough
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I’m ready to move on and I i need to
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leave i need to go do something else in
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my life I don’t know what that is yet
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but I’m gonna figure it out i started
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down that path i started going back to
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school to work on getting my associates
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associates
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yeah associate’s degree in business
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management which wound up going for a
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little while for almost two years doing
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a bunch of courses to get some work done
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on that on
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degree and ultimately decided that
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wasn’t necessarily going to help me go
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where I wanted to go into things that I
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wanted to do so yeah I i really think
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that you need to be able to listen to
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your inner voice and then you you need
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to identify what is really really want
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out of what it’s telling you to do and
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then you can move on to amplify that
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message to yourself so you have the
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courage and you give yourself permission
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to go into the things that is that you
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want to do it’s so so important for you
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to be happy
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I you know some people say don’t follow
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your passion because that’s not gonna
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leave you the money but before you even
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think about money before you even think
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about any of that stuff
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think about yourself and the things that
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is that you want and the things that
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you’re doing in your life that are
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already making it miserable for you so
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you can start to make it better and it
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when it’s better for you it’s better for
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everyone else that was better for my
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wife and it was it ultimately has been
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better for everybody i know that i’m
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happier person in society and doing the
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things that it is that I love so listen
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to your inner voice amplified message to
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yourself and then start to make a game
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plan and go from there and you can even
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use the college ring book that I bro I
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as a game plan
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you know as a framework to build your
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game plan to move on and figure out what
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it is that you want to do with your life
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from here on out
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ok on Joe Parr know this has been the
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dreamers podcast i really appreciate
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everybody listening please go and leave
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a rating review on iTunes Google Play
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stitcher if you’re watching this on
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youtube
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thank you so much please hit that like
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and subscribe button if you enjoyed it
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or you can hit the dislike button on
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more more information more in-depth I’d
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like to do these more often i’m going to
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try to do these more often and I’m
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trying a new camera setup here so i hope
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that it worked out really really well
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there’s light and and it’s it’s not too
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bad so we’ll say and hopefully I able
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will be joining me next week for the
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dreamers podcast Friday edition
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hopefully it’s not
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full-time addition I have so many things
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coming up i’ll be going to California
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shortly to write a book co-authoring a
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book with the one and only
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Jeff Barnes if you haven’t picked up
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with the wall go pick it up it’s on
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amazon and it’s actually a bunch of
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different places but i can get on Amazon
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wonderful ball wonderful guy and I’m
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looking forward to co-authoring a
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children’s version of the book with him
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if you haven’t heard it’s gonna be
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awesome and i’m going to California to
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help start that process so i guess i’ll
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see you all next week
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this this upcoming week i have an
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interview coming out with kin shipler
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a IT person at heart and she’s been
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doing what it is that she loved to do so
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magical weekend it’s going to be a great
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week ahead
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https://youtu.be/7eAFpMTXAWA
Today I talk about the difficult time I had finding and figuring out how to listen to my inner voice. I struggled for nearly a year talking with a therapist looking for validation and permission. Finally, I figured out that I needed to search harder within myself and listen to my inner voice. That was when everything started to change for me, very rapidly and eventually it has gotten much easier!
Also, shout out to my man Eric P. Thomas (former guest on Dreamers Podcast) for the awesome shirt I am rocking today! Check out his company!
Check out the YouTube video above or listen to the podcast on iTunes.
I hope you are all enjoying these mini episodes that I am publishing to YouTube. Please let me know what you think in the comments or shoot me an email. 🙂
Shoot me your questions to [email protected]
Episode 259
Transcription
1
00:00:00,000 –> 00:00:04,290
welcome everybody to the dreamers
2
00:00:02,760 –> 00:00:06,990
podcast I’m your host your party
3
00:00:04,290 –> 00:00:11,280
unfortunately a big race is not here to
4
00:00:06,990 –> 00:00:14,580
be here with me here today today I want
5
00:00:11,280 –> 00:00:18,900
to talk about a topic that it took me
6
00:00:14,580 –> 00:00:21,779
about a year of going to therapy to
7
00:00:18,900 –> 00:00:24,299
figure out and the whole time the answer
8
00:00:21,779 –> 00:00:25,830
was right in front of me so leading up
9
00:00:24,300 –> 00:00:27,779
to the time which I was getting ready to
10
00:00:25,830 –> 00:00:30,630
leave my family’s business i was going
11
00:00:27,779 –> 00:00:34,739
to a therapist I was coming week after
12
00:00:30,630 –> 00:00:37,500
week after week for an entire year and
13
00:00:34,739 –> 00:00:40,440
all I was doing was complaining about my
14
00:00:37,500 –> 00:00:42,510
working you know the things that weren’t
15
00:00:40,440 –> 00:00:45,390
going right at work how I was frustrated
16
00:00:42,510 –> 00:00:48,360
with the reactions i was getting from
17
00:00:45,390 –> 00:00:50,460
both some of the employees family and
18
00:00:48,360 –> 00:00:52,79
everything and I was just I was ready to
19
00:00:50,460 –> 00:00:55,379
give up and be fed I was fed up with the
20
00:00:52,79 –> 00:00:57,840
whole situation and I had a therapist
21
00:00:55,379 –> 00:00:59,910
that refused to tell me that it was ok
22
00:00:57,840 –> 00:01:01,800
leave he was not willing to give me that
23
00:00:59,910 –> 00:01:03,629
permission and i wrote about this in my
24
00:01:01,800 –> 00:01:05,548
book 31like changing concepts is that
25
00:01:03,629 –> 00:01:08,9
you don’t need permission from anyone
26
00:01:05,549 –> 00:01:12,479
except yourself to do things that is
27
00:01:08,10 –> 00:01:15,450
that you you you and you want to do
28
00:01:12,479 –> 00:01:19,710
me myself and I he has tagged me myself
29
00:01:15,450 –> 00:01:22,80
and I radio South Anthony days I she
30
00:01:19,710 –> 00:01:23,309
totally permission to give yourself our
31
00:01:22,80 –> 00:01:24,899
provision for anyone else to give
32
00:01:23,310 –> 00:01:27,180
yourself permission to do things that it
33
00:01:24,900 –> 00:01:30,689
is that you want to do and that you feel
34
00:01:27,180 –> 00:01:33,60
is right for you so it took me a year to
35
00:01:30,689 –> 00:01:34,710
figure out the finally give myself that
36
00:01:33,60 –> 00:01:35,640
permission to say you know what enough
37
00:01:34,710 –> 00:01:38,39
is enough
38
00:01:35,640 –> 00:01:39,540
I’m ready to move on and I i need to
39
00:01:38,40 –> 00:01:41,70
leave i need to go do something else in
40
00:01:39,540 –> 00:01:42,810
my life I don’t know what that is yet
41
00:01:41,70 –> 00:01:44,460
but I’m gonna figure it out i started
42
00:01:42,810 –> 00:01:48,869
down that path i started going back to
43
00:01:44,460 –> 00:01:50,9
school to work on getting my associates
44
00:01:48,869 –> 00:01:52,140
associates
45
00:01:50,9 –> 00:01:55,350
yeah associate’s degree in business
46
00:01:52,140 –> 00:01:58,560
management which wound up going for a
47
00:01:55,350 –> 00:02:00,689
little while for almost two years doing
48
00:01:58,560 –> 00:02:01,970
a bunch of courses to get some work done
49
00:02:00,689 –> 00:02:03,649
on that on
50
00:02:01,970 –> 00:02:05,690
degree and ultimately decided that
51
00:02:03,650 –> 00:02:07,460
wasn’t necessarily going to help me go
52
00:02:05,690 –> 00:02:10,910
where I wanted to go into things that I
53
00:02:07,460 –> 00:02:14,209
wanted to do so yeah I i really think
54
00:02:10,910 –> 00:02:17,210
that you need to be able to listen to
55
00:02:14,210 –> 00:02:21,200
your inner voice and then you you need
56
00:02:17,210 –> 00:02:23,540
to identify what is really really want
57
00:02:21,200 –> 00:02:26,209
out of what it’s telling you to do and
58
00:02:23,540 –> 00:02:28,940
then you can move on to amplify that
59
00:02:26,210 –> 00:02:30,650
message to yourself so you have the
60
00:02:28,940 –> 00:02:33,50
courage and you give yourself permission
61
00:02:30,650 –> 00:02:36,290
to go into the things that is that you
62
00:02:33,50 –> 00:02:37,520
want to do it’s so so important for you
63
00:02:36,290 –> 00:02:39,890
to be happy
64
00:02:37,520 –> 00:02:41,480
I you know some people say don’t follow
65
00:02:39,890 –> 00:02:43,160
your passion because that’s not gonna
66
00:02:41,480 –> 00:02:44,690
leave you the money but before you even
67
00:02:43,160 –> 00:02:46,10
think about money before you even think
68
00:02:44,690 –> 00:02:47,450
about any of that stuff
69
00:02:46,10 –> 00:02:48,950
think about yourself and the things that
70
00:02:47,450 –> 00:02:50,720
is that you want and the things that
71
00:02:48,950 –> 00:02:53,570
you’re doing in your life that are
72
00:02:50,720 –> 00:02:56,90
already making it miserable for you so
73
00:02:53,570 –> 00:02:57,680
you can start to make it better and it
74
00:02:56,90 –> 00:02:59,000
when it’s better for you it’s better for
75
00:02:57,680 –> 00:03:01,250
everyone else that was better for my
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00:02:59,000 –> 00:03:04,70
wife and it was it ultimately has been
77
00:03:01,250 –> 00:03:07,310
better for everybody i know that i’m
78
00:03:04,70 –> 00:03:10,880
happier person in society and doing the
79
00:03:07,310 –> 00:03:13,190
things that it is that I love so listen
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to your inner voice amplified message to
81
00:03:13,190 –> 00:03:16,970
yourself and then start to make a game
82
00:03:15,260 –> 00:03:19,670
plan and go from there and you can even
83
00:03:16,970 –> 00:03:21,500
use the college ring book that I bro I
84
00:03:19,670 –> 00:03:23,660
as a game plan
85
00:03:21,500 –> 00:03:26,239
you know as a framework to build your
86
00:03:23,660 –> 00:03:28,549
game plan to move on and figure out what
87
00:03:26,239 –> 00:03:30,980
it is that you want to do with your life
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00:03:28,550 –> 00:03:33,350
from here on out
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00:03:30,980 –> 00:03:35,209
ok on Joe Parr know this has been the
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00:03:33,350 –> 00:03:36,859
dreamers podcast i really appreciate
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00:03:35,209 –> 00:03:39,49
everybody listening please go and leave
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a rating review on iTunes Google Play
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stitcher if you’re watching this on
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youtube
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thank you so much please hit that like
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and subscribe button if you enjoyed it
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or you can hit the dislike button on
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youtube if you don’t enjoy these videos
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at all i do you think i should be doing
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more more information more in-depth I’d
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00:03:54,410 –> 00:03:58,190
like to do these more often i’m going to
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00:03:56,330 –> 00:04:00,440
try to do these more often and I’m
103
00:03:58,190 –> 00:04:01,970
trying a new camera setup here so i hope
104
00:04:00,440 –> 00:04:05,60
that it worked out really really well
105
00:04:01,970 –> 00:04:08,390
there’s light and and it’s it’s not too
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00:04:05,60 –> 00:04:10,520
bad so we’ll say and hopefully I able
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will be joining me next week for the
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dreamers podcast Friday edition
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hopefully it’s not
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full-time addition I have so many things
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coming up i’ll be going to California
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shortly to write a book co-authoring a
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book with the one and only
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Jeff Barnes if you haven’t picked up
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with the wall go pick it up it’s on
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amazon and it’s actually a bunch of
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different places but i can get on Amazon
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wonderful ball wonderful guy and I’m
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looking forward to co-authoring a
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children’s version of the book with him
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if you haven’t heard it’s gonna be
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awesome and i’m going to California to
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help start that process so i guess i’ll
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see you all next week
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this this upcoming week i have an
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interview coming out with kin shipler
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who is an awesome wordpress person she’s
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a IT person at heart and she’s been
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doing i.t since the eighties when she
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was one of the few and only women in IT
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doing what it is that she loved to do so
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thanks again for watching or listening
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to the dreamers podcast happened a
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magical weekend it’s going to be a great
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week ahead