There will come times of suffering in this life. Often, we can remember in our own past of occasions of misery that we have experienced. Did we have this experience because of what we caused in our life or was this an experience we had no control by our own actions. Often during the event we will not know why we are or must be in the situation that we are in, or how long the event will continue. Be careful in what you speak because we often do not know all the details of even our own agony.