who knew i was a reader this whole time? not me!

listen to me give do an unpaid promotion on my kindle while I clean my room, yap about fanfiction and unpack why i thought i hated reading when i actually just needed a softer, slower way back into it.

check me out on @sarahboakyex on IG and TikTok

who knew that being “hard to understand” actually means you are complex in a simple world? not me!

listen to me talk through what it’s like to grow up feeling misunderstood, how that turned into self-doubt, and that my love language is not actually one of the five we've all heard of. it's being understood.

also i have a community for black girls in the netherlands! check it out @bbnl.collective on IG and TikTok!

who knew victim mentality was basically just a mix of nasty affirmations and microdosed sadness? certainly not me!

listen to me unravel what it means to be a victim, and swear my way towards resolution. trigger warning: i might be oversimplifying things, so be weary!

who knew that anger didn't have to be destructive? not me!

listen to me talk about the discovery of my anger as if i am columbus. in the sense that i am claiming to have found something new which has, in fact, always just been there.

nothing too crazy, just the second bit of what it is to be comfortable.

listen to what i do to get comfy, why i was ashamed to be comfortable and why emotional space is so important for me to feel at ease

i discovered what comfort is now so you're forced to learn how to be comfortable with me!

listen to me rant about people pleasing and talk about how a feeling of constant discomfort might be tied to the survival mentality..

new year, same old me.

we all get that feeling around the holidays: "we want to be our best selves". but is that really the vibe? and why do we get that feeling in the first place?

hi i'm back.

so let's catch up, talk about podcasts, why i started doing it and what podcasts i listen to