When Someone Doesn't See You

Being underestimated has a way of reaching past your growth and pulling out an older version of you. In this episode, I share what happened during a lunch conversation that triggered something I thought I'd moved past.

After someone questioned my credentials — and my character — I defended myself well. Too well. And when the euphoria wore off, I had to sit with what that said about me.

This isn't really about the man who doubted me. It's about the man who answered.

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THEE BIG SWING is a reflective podcast about the emotional reckonings and subtle internal recalibrations that change our trajectory over time — and the possibilities still available in life.

Each episode explores the moments when curiosity, courage, accountability, or reflection opens new ways of seeing ourselves and the world.

Through personal reflections and conversations, Lloyd explores changing identities, relationships, self-trust, and the quiet decisions that alter how we see ourselves over time.

THEE BIG SWING is for people who are quietly realizing they are not the same person anymore and that there are still choices left.

The biggest swing isn't always dramatic. Often, it's the shift inside that changes everything.

If something here stayed with you, you can reach me at [email protected]