In 2017, Lloyd took an ancestry DNA test expecting no surprises.

I was wrong.

What followed was a journey — literally — to a small island in the Dutch Caribbean where his grandfather was born, to relatives he never knew existed, to birth certificates from the late 1800s, and to a quiet but profound decision: to stop seeing strangers as strangers.

This isn't a political conversation. It's a personal one. About what happens when biology makes something plain that you thought you already understood. About belonging on a larger scale than most of us allow ourselves to consider.

And about what it feels like to finally take your place in the world.

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THEE BIG SWING is a reflective podcast about the emotional reckonings and subtle internal recalibrations that change our trajectory over time — and the possibilities still available in life.

Each episode explores the moments when curiosity, courage, accountability, or reflection opens new ways of seeing ourselves and the world.

Through personal reflections and conversations, Lloyd explores changing identities, relationships, self-trust, and the quiet decisions that alter how we see ourselves over time.

THEE BIG SWING is for people who are quietly realizing they are not the same person anymore and that there are still choices left.

The biggest swing isn't always dramatic. Often, it's the shift inside that changes everything.

If something here stayed with you, you can reach me at [email protected]