In all the push-pull techniques out there in arriving at the best survival strategy for the fittest, ‘I am enough’ and ‘however I am is sufficient’ and ‘this is how I am supposed to be at this point in time’ goes slightly amiss and when we don’t have this we’ll enough, there is no personal ground to stand from and become better. When I can’t stand by me even, I am a liability in the making waiting for someone to ‘help’ or ‘support’ me even though I have a body that has come to be what it is from years of being taken care of so much so that I can stand and walk on my own two feet without parental or caretaker support. Can I not also stand by what makes me, my people and my Earth better from within the parameters of living available to me and stand by healthifying what is not by voicing for the harmony that is missing because someone can’t see what I/you can? Isn’t that what makes us a family member?