As leaders, we want to encourage our teams to succeed. To battle challenges that are put in front of them and come out the other end stronger.

We often hear people making excuses for their careers or their performance or their achievements based on difficulties that they have faced. But to truly succeed as leaders, we need to be able to overcome adversity and today’s guest is the best possible example I could find of someone who has done exactly that in their life.

Jody Plauche from Baton Rouge, La., made national headlines in March 1984 when he was abducted by his karate teacher and taken to Los Angeles, Ca. FBI officials rescued Jody and his abductor was arrested. Upon his karate teacher’s return, Jody’s father Gary, shot and killed Jeff Doucet. The shooting was captured by WBRZ news crew, a local ABC affiliate.

Jody has worked in the field of violence prevention since 1995. While attending Louisiana State University, he served on the executive board for Men Against Violence, a campus organization aimed at preventing campus violence, including sexual assault and other physical violence.

Currently, Jody presents professional and college trainings about sexual violence risk reduction throughout the country.

We asked Jody to come onto the show to talk about his past, his work, and his philosophy, and how he has come to be the success that he is today.

In this week’s show:

* How did the ordeal affect Jody at the time?

* How did Jody come through the experience and move forward positively?

* The catalyst for Jody to get into public speaking and sharing his experience with the world

* Overcoming adversity

* More information about Jody

Links:

* Fallen Angel

* Rape Crisis

* http://www.jodyplauche.net/

* https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01pdxOMqy2s

How did the ordeal affect Jody at the time?

Jody was 11 years old when the kidnapping and the shooting occurred. At the time, in 1984, Jody was angry with his father, Gary Plauche, for killing his abuser, Jeff Doucet. It’s important to remember that ‘compliant victims’ as they are termed, or children that are being abused, don’t hate their abusers – largely because they don’t truly understand what is happening.

That was his initial response. Obviously over time, he came to realise that Jeff was a predator and not a good person.

Jody also stresses that he does not advise any parent to respond the way his father did – a parent should be with their child rather than putting themselves in a position where they may spend the rest of their life in prison.

That said, what helped in Jody’s recovery was the fact that the publicity that the case generated led Jody to deal with it at a young age, rather than keeping secret for 20 years. His friends were very supportive of him as a result of the case and he was able to begin to move forward positively.

How did Jody come through the experience and move forward positively?

Jody gives credit to his mother.

She sat down with her kids (long before the incident or abuse occurred) and watched a movie called ‘Fallen Angel.’ She warned them that there are people out there that pose this threat to children.

So when his karate teacher began testing boundaries and began abusing him, he realised that this was one of those people his mother had taught him about. For that reason, Jody never blamed himself for what happened or thought that he had done anything wrong.

This had a big impact on his ability to move on positively.

Jody compares the experience to a grieving process. He didn’t recover overnight.