You can read my previous blog post where I wrote about this topic.  This podcast episode unpacks this more. Links: I highly recommend this book by Jeff VanVonderen and David Johnson! https://www.amazon.com/Subtle-Power-Spiritual-Abuse-Manipulation/dp/0764201379/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1519223965&sr=8-3&keywords=jeff+vanvonderen Joy’s book https://www.amazon.com/Identity-Crisis-Moving-Credibility-Morgan/dp/1614489157/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1519224079&sr=1-1&keywords=joy+Anisa give hope and will renew your spirit. On this podcast, Joy unpacks Nehemiah 1 and talks more about 2 Samuel 12 If Continue Reading