Few things are as misunderstood as this. You are who you are because of your identity, not your actions. Your actions do not determine your identity.

The Bible says there are two groups and describes it in several ways: sheep / goat, wheat / tare, alive / dead, In Christ / In Adam. You were born In Adam, and therefore a sinner. Jesus can change that. He can place you inside of him (In Christ). In Christ, everything changes.

What you believe about this has great impact on how you life and what you think and feel. Jesus is awesome.