In this episode, Jessie explores the concept of identity rest — a powerful practice for anyone whose sense of worth has become entangled with their productivity, performance, or professional title.

Jessie first encountered the concept of "identity rest" from Chandani Patel Thompson, a lawyer and creator of the Rest to Rise Summit (May 19–22, free to attend).

When we spend years in environments that reward us for what we produce, we can unconsciously begin to equate our value with our output. The result? An inner voice that never lets us fully rest, a "striver driver" that's taken over the wheel.

In this episode, I share:

• Why children and elders posses a type of wisdom that many high achievers lose touch with
• How the law firm model — built around billable hour quotas — can deepen our identity-performance fusion
• The Internal Family Systems (IFS) framework and how to understand the parts of us that push, achieve, and strive
• A surprising question to ask your inner striver
• The childhood photo exercise to reconnect with your essence before the world told you who to be
• Three real examples from my clients: dance class, improv, pottery — and why these aren't hobbies, they're medicine
• The AWE walk practice and why I stopped tracking my steps

This episode is for you if you've ever felt the exhaustion of living from your résumé instead of your soul.

Links & Resources:

• Rest to Rise Summit (free, May 19–22): register here
• Sedona Retreat (October 1–4): reach out to reserve your spot
• Download my free Career Alignment Map

Returning to Soul is a podcast for lawyers and other high-achievers seeking deeper meaning, purpose, and fulfillment in their work and lives.