Comparison is the thief of joy. In this episode of IF A HEART COULD SPEAK, we discuss how grief can enter our lives from feeling the loss of what we think our lives should be vs what it is. The idea of what we think our lives should be comes from living vicariously through the lens of someone else’s experience. But I’ve learned that there’s no such thing as a life that’s better than mine. So this time, All eyes on me, but all eyes are mine.

In this episode of IF A HEART COULD SPEAK we talk about radical forgiveness. My heart has been through many trials and the lesson on the other end has always included forgiveness. Forgiveness of others, forgiveness of myself, and forgiving God because I know I needed the revelation at the end of my detriment. & so I forgive to heal, but it was never easy which is why it’s so radical. Still I had to because God forgives.. what about you?

In this episode of If A Heart Could Speak, we discuss Love and devotion. This is a beautiful dialogue with my Partner in Love, Boo Bear, where we speak about love as more than emotion, but an action, and how to do it within our relationships even when it’s difficult.

𝙸𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚎𝚙𝚒𝚜𝚘𝚍𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝙸𝚏 𝙰 𝙷𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚝 𝙲𝚘𝚞𝚕𝚍 𝚂𝚙𝚎𝚊𝚔 𝚠𝚎 𝚊𝚛𝚎 𝚝𝚊𝚕𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊𝚋𝚘𝚞𝚝 𝙻 𝙾 𝚅 𝙴 ✨ 𝙰𝚐𝚊𝚙𝚎 𝙻 𝙾 𝚅 𝙴 𝚜𝚙𝚎𝚌𝚒𝚏𝚒𝚌𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚢. 𝙰𝚐𝚊𝚙𝚎 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚒𝚜 𝚘𝚏𝚝𝚎𝚗 𝚍𝚎𝚜𝚌𝚛𝚒𝚋𝚎𝚍 𝚊𝚜 𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏𝚕𝚎𝚜𝚜, 𝚞𝚗𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚍𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚊𝚕 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚎𝚡𝚝𝚎𝚗𝚍𝚜 𝚋𝚎𝚢𝚘𝚗𝚍 𝚎𝚖𝚘𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 𝚘𝚛 𝚏𝚎𝚎𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚜. 𝙸𝚝'𝚜 𝚊 𝚍𝚎𝚎𝚙, 𝚜𝚊𝚌𝚛𝚒𝚏𝚒𝚌𝚒𝚊𝚕 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚜𝚎𝚎𝚔𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚠𝚎𝚕𝚕-𝚋𝚎𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚑𝚊𝚙𝚙𝚒𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜 𝚘𝚏 𝚘𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛𝚜, 𝚛𝚎𝚐𝚊𝚛𝚍𝚕𝚎𝚜𝚜 𝚘𝚏 𝚌𝚒𝚛𝚌𝚞𝚖𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎𝚜. 𝙰𝚐𝚊𝚙𝚎 𝚒𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚝𝚢𝚙𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚒𝚜 𝚞𝚗𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚍𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚊𝚕 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚍𝚘𝚎𝚜 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚍𝚎𝚙𝚎𝚗𝚍 𝚘𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚊𝚌𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 𝚘𝚛 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜 𝚘𝚏 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚘𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛 𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚜𝚘𝚗. 𝙳𝚒𝚍 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚔𝚗𝚘𝚠 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚍 𝚘𝚏 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚒𝚜 𝙰𝙻𝚆𝙰𝚈𝚂 𝚊𝚟𝚊𝚒𝚕𝚊𝚋𝚕𝚎 𝚝𝚘 𝚢𝚘𝚞? 𝙸𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚎𝚙𝚒𝚜𝚘𝚍𝚎 𝚠𝚎 𝚍𝚒𝚜𝚌𝚞𝚜𝚜 𝚠𝚑𝚎𝚛𝚎 𝚝𝚘 𝚐𝚎𝚝 𝚒𝚝.

Maybe you’re not like me, maybe you don’t want to fight the urge to go over the deep end. Maybe you need the crash out to release the pent up frustration.. I get it! & I’m here with you.. it’s okay not to be okay. It’s okay to let loose and spiral out of control sometimes. Cuz you’re human and earth is a ghetto place.. So let’s say you do crash out, and you’re somewhere in a ditch, laying face down in some wet stinky mud.. & you feel hopeless still and confused.. so what now?

In this episode we discuss life after a crash out.. this is your self help manual to get you off of your face and back on your feet.

So front one HeartBeat to another, Babe it’s time to get up! 🫀✨

In this episode we discuss the urge to Crash Out when life gets tough..

I’ll admit, Keeping a balance in life is kinda hard for me. Because it’s like I’m constantly weighing one thing against the other trying to find an equilibrium, that feels too hard to maintain. Some days I want to tip the scales and go all the way to the polar end of a thing - spiraling to its depths at full capacity, even with knowing that if I land wrong, I’ll crash and burn.. still, inevitably rising out of a lava bed covered in my own ashes. I know I’m a Phoenix.. but there’s only one way to prove it 🐦‍🔥❤️‍🔥✨ so sometimes I wanna crash out.. but will I?

In this episode of If A Heart Could Speak, we discuss divine timing, and trusting the process of your manifestations unfolding in a timeline that is beyond your control. Rejection may be redirection, and a delay is not a denial.. what you desire, desires you. Trust that things are still working in your favor, even when you can’t see it ✨

In this episode of If A Heart Could Speak, we discuss making the grand exit from survival mode. Embracing life from the lens of love, and retraining our brains to operate from a space of softness 🫀✨

BLVCK-MAIL is now If A Heart Could Speak

After almost 3 yrs of a hiatus, we are back! & there’s been a rebrand. You’re probably wondering where I’ve been and why I went.. this episode is the “Tell All” 🤭

Anywho, welcome back Chy Lights! It’s time for us to ignite on a whole other level ✨