First dates can leave you hearing wedding bells in the distance or f*cking crash and burn making you question your own sanity while looking for the hidden cameras. Whether meeting on the apps or in the wild, it all comes down to setting up that first date, which is enough to send some of us into an anxiety fueled state of panic. From pre-gaming happy hour to horrifying hobbies, sometimes you’ve just got to fake a dismemberment and bail. If they were all winners we’d all be married, right? Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast.